Wish Women's Day was really meaningful

gender parity

Another March 8 has passed by. It is undeniable that International Women's Day, which is observed on this day ever year, has helped to remind us that revolutionary changes in the social life of women have happened all over the world. There is, however, as always, a 'but.' Have any of these changes actually helped a woman to liberate herself and feel empowered among her own peers? I don't think so.

For decades men and women alike have argued the importance of gender equality. That is, basically, women need the same privileges as men, be it in the work-field, or be it regarding to the social standing of both genders. With many companies willing to pay men and women the same wage for equal work and with feminists all over the world arguing favourably, this requirement has seen a positive growth in most of the working sectors. However, I still insinuate – this is not what women actually want.

Things go dramatically miserable when we move onto the non-working section of the female gender. Most of them don't even know about the fierce feminist movements that work to free them from the shackles of the bonds they are tied to. Most of them don’t even want to be liberated. Generations of cultural and familial traditions have taught them that their purpose in life is to be a marriageable asset and bear children. They are not even ready to accept the possibility existing beyond what they have experienced. And most of them want the same fate for their daughters. This is where things go wrong. This mindset is the sole reason for gender discrimination. If women don't mind being discriminated, then why would others stop the practice?

Yes, there are further problems like lack of opportunities and male patriarchy in the working sectors; but why look at the roof when the foundation itself is incomplete? When all women can come forward and say 'we need an end to this discrimination!' That's when the change will be visible. That's when the real discrimination would end. Until then, it would just be another Women's Day with more volunteers from men than women.

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